{"id":10096,"date":"2026-09-09T09:23:33","date_gmt":"2026-09-09T09:23:33","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/thehindustnexpress.com\/?p=10096"},"modified":"2026-09-09T09:26:24","modified_gmt":"2026-09-09T09:26:24","slug":"namratha-vijaykumar-behavioural","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/thehindustnexpress.com\/index.php\/2026\/09\/09\/namratha-vijaykumar-behavioural\/","title":{"rendered":"Namratha Vijaykumar on Breaking Recurring Behavioural Patterns"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Why Do We Keep Getting Stuck in the Same Patterns?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

A person changes jobs, hoping for a fresh start, but eventually finds themselves facing the same workplace conflicts.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Someone enters a new relationship and discovers familiar emotional dynamics emerging again.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

An entrepreneur changes strategies, restructures the business and tries different approaches, yet continues to encounter similar roadblocks.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The circumstances change.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The pattern remains.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

For Leadership Psychologist and founder of Minhance Wellness, Namratha Vijaykumar<\/strong>, this can be an important area of psychological self-understanding.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

People can genuinely want change and still find themselves repeating familiar responses. In many cases, the difficulty is not that they do not know what they want. It is that behaviour can be influenced by patterns operating beneath conscious intention.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

When Knowing Is Not Enough<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

One of the most frustrating experiences is recognising what needs to change but struggling to make that change last.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Someone may know they need stronger boundaries but continue saying yes to every request.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

A manager may understand that delegation is necessary but repeatedly take responsibilities back.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

An individual may recognise that overthinking is affecting their decisions and still find themselves caught in the same cycle.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

It can be tempting to interpret this as a lack of discipline or motivation.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Namratha believes the explanation can sometimes be more complex.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cPeople often assume that if they know what to do, they should automatically be able to do it,\u201d she says. \u201cBut behaviour is influenced by much more than conscious knowledge.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Past experiences, beliefs, emotional responses, coping strategies and learned behaviours can all influence how someone responds to familiar situations.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Knowing what to do is therefore not always the same as being able to respond differently in the moment.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The Patterns We Stop Noticing<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Some behaviours become so familiar that people no longer question them.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

One person may interpret being constantly in control as being responsible.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Another may see avoiding difficult conversations as a way of maintaining peace.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Someone else may believe that always being available is what makes them valuable to others.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

These behaviours may not have developed without reason.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

At an earlier point in life, a particular response may have helped someone manage uncertainty, gain approval, avoid conflict or feel secure.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The difficulty arises when an old strategy continues operating in circumstances where it is no longer helpful.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

For Namratha, psychological work can involve developing curiosity around these patterns rather than immediately judging oneself for having them.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Instead of asking, \u201cWhy do I keep doing this?\u201d<\/strong>, a person can begin exploring what the behaviour is trying to achieve, where it may have originated and whether it still serves a useful purpose.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

When Strengths Become Limitations<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

These patterns can become particularly visible in leadership.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Entrepreneurs often build their businesses around qualities that initially contribute to their success.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Independence can help a founder move quickly\u2014but later become difficulty trusting others with responsibility.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

High standards can drive quality\u2014but can also develop into perfectionism.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

A strong sense of responsibility can build reliability\u2014but may eventually become over-control.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Speed can be valuable in an early-stage business\u2014but can become impulsiveness when decisions affect a larger organisation.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

In this way, a leadership challenge may sometimes have a psychological dimension.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Namratha’s work with founders and senior leaders explores this intersection between the individual and the organisation, particularly when behaviours that once supported success begin creating new limitations.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Looking Beyond the Individual<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Not every recurring pattern originates solely within an individual.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Relationships and environments can influence behaviour as well.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Family dynamics can shape how people understand responsibility, authority, conflict and belonging. Workplace cultures can reinforce particular behaviours. Organisational structures can encourage or discourage autonomy and accountability.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

This broader perspective forms part of the work undertaken through Minhance Wellness, including Family Constellation<\/strong> and Organisational Constellation<\/strong> approaches.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The purpose is not to attribute every difficulty to family history or organisational circumstances.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Instead, it is to widen the question:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

What is maintaining this pattern?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sometimes the answer may lie within the individual’s beliefs or behaviour. Sometimes it may involve relationships, expectations or the environment around them.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Understanding that distinction can provide a more useful starting point for change.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Recognition Creates Choice<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Breaking a pattern does not necessarily mean eliminating every familiar behaviour.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The more important goal can be developing enough awareness to create a moment of choice.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

A person notices the trigger instead of reacting automatically.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

They recognise the familiar response before acting on it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

They pause and consider whether another response might better fit the situation.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

That pause can be small, but it can create an important difference between reacting out of habit and responding deliberately.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

For Namratha, this is one of the ways mental wellness becomes an everyday practice.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cPsychological wellbeing is not only about dealing with a problem after it becomes overwhelming,\u201d she says. \u201cIt is also about understanding yourself well enough to recognise patterns before they continue to shape your life.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The first step towards change, therefore, may not always be trying harder.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sometimes, it is simply noticing what keeps happening\u2014and becoming curious about why.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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